Yes I Love You

Love You Love You May I Love You.

手已經圍好城堡 心也已經備好浪潮
快完成等待完成的擁抱
別說你還沒有感覺到
我所給你的微笑 不只微笑

Love you Love you Yes I love You

你聽見了嗎'
這是我第一千遍第一萬遍心裏的回答
那身邊的人經過的人我都不牽掛
我只去 你想要去的天涯

心

我没有你女神那么性感 没有鬼鬼那么可爱 更没有米可的身材，但我想他们都是虚幻的，只有我是真的哦！ 我只有一颗喜欢你的心~

习惯

跟你聊天，已经变成我的习惯了。真的不知道，我习惯了有你存在我的世界里，你是否也会习惯了有我的存在?

If only you know…

I wished for many things in my life. But at this very moment, my wishes lies in you. A lot of times, I really wish I am there to share with you. Small wishes that you will never know, because I won’t say it out in front of you.

I don’t want to overthink things. I just wish things could just remain as it is like now.

No matter how much worries I have, I can only do the best thing by being myself as usual~ After all, I am just me. =/ Not sure what I’m trying to say. I don’t seems to get tired talking to you. How I wish I could just tell you how I feel at this moment. I start to ask myself, “can we be more than just friends?” “is it possible?” because I feel comfortable around you. I have to say not many people can make me feel that way. You’re probably the 2nd person who can make me feel this way. Never knew how strong it is until something happened. I feel threatened by it. I am worried. But then again, what can I do but quietly blogging while listening to yiruma’s song hope it can calm me.  My first confession to you. =/

Ubah, Ini Karilah?

A very hot and powerful slogan which recently very popular due to our country election tomorrow, 4 years once. For as long as I lived, I never experienced such huge urge for us Malaysian who wanted a change of government so badly. Everyone in the world, every Malaysian, which also including actors, singers and entertainers are coming back from all around the world, just for tomorrow’s big event.

Sadly, I was not eligible to vote. I pray hard for tomorrow’s election,

“This is the Curry! ” =P

We went to eat steamboat to celebrate Tuck Leong’s birthday. Took a picture and tagged him together with See Meng and Kar Ling and Jin Hao in facebook, written:

“又大一岁了，友谊万岁！”

Due to what happened for the past one week, I have learnt a big lesson, think thoroughly of every decision you made, weight the pros and cons, and also be careful of what we wished for. Every action comes with a consequences needed to bear, HOWEVER, Decision has been made ! I will go according to my plan for sure !

I know what my heart wants and I will follow it !

雨是甜的

雨是甜的

大雨傾盆而下的這一刻,
比起相遇那天還要適合,
我哭了,雨捨不得­,
你越模糊了. 
走著走著回憶吧我圍著,
一個人的城市沒有顏色,
彩虹呢,雨狂嘯著­,
聽著夢醒了. 
眼淚苦苦的,雨是甜的 
所以還記得,注定一起躲雨的我們,
時光滴答著,美得像詩歌,我們愛了.
眼淚苦苦的,雨是甜的
堅強回家了
泡在溫水裡等心回溫, 
回憶都涼著,慢慢風乾了 
傷的,總會癒合 
愛情苦苦的,雨是甜的 
偶爾還記得,曾經一起躲雨的我們 
時光滴答著,值不值得 真心愛的 
愛情苦苦的,雨是甜的 
月光太清澈,照著我一個人輾轉翻側 放了,
我會試著快樂 放了,我就值得快樂

I will...

I promised myself I will find someone who pei me to mayday concert next year ! :/ I dono how long I need to get over him but I know someday I will let him go completely. I miss my dii I'm missing my colleague , I feel so lonely :(

记得要忘记

This is a song i accidentally found. A very old song by S.H.E. Mostly of the lyrics is about must learn to forget those memories or leave it untouched anymore. There is a song that helps in my music therapy, it’s call *As you turn away* by Lady Antebellum. *I don’t wanna let you go, but you’re already gone* *Let go of my hand, so I can feel again, nothing gonna hurt as much as that final touch,  No we can’t be friends cause I don’t think I could take seeing you and knowing where we’ve been, I hope you understand. * very meaningful song =)

I’m not sure since when I music-therapy myself to get heal…to move on…although there is always times where i will still miss him, thought of the memories and his face. No matter how, I know I have to slowly let go no matter how, accepted the fact that things won’t be the same anymore.

It’s been a month since at my new company now. Maybe I’m not good in my understanding, but I tried my best to not repeat any mistakes anymore. I don’t want to make mistakes and make Li Yen angry anymore. I can actually sense that she doesn’t like me much. Therefore i told myself to only do my best at work and ignore others. I mean we cant expect everyone to like us ma. My main purpose is to work and save more money =)

Seems to get used to the lifestyle here now, Christmas is coming everything is rushed in my company. Bought a cup for my company Christmas lunch events at Parco Cafe on the 24th of this month. This is my first year spending Christmas here, hopefully its peaceful =)

It feels so good to know when someone told you they think of you =) especially when that someone is someone you’re interested, um I mean he’s quite a nice friend. =) Get to know him through a misunderstanding. Which also because of the misunderstanding I know his name and start to pay attention to him. Starting everything was just a joke between Mei Tein and Irene when I told them I mistook him as our company staff. Things start to change when Mei Tein give me his personal email whereby they used to contact during the auditing process. I took the email and search on facebook and found him. Added him, send him a *thank you for accepting my friend request* message. Haha! It just a polite way of me =) He did reply about few days after he accepted my friend request on facebook. He only asked me once if I’m from LHN group and I say yea. Last Tuesday me and Wai Ting stayed until 9 to pack the *FU* calendar for our tenants and suppliers. It was also on Tuesday night he stayed till 9 and we left together with 2 of his colleague and took the same company bus. Never expect much and just went home as usual. It was until after I finish bathing and saw him fb message me asking me why do I OT today and we start to chat and he asked if I got whatsapp. He gave me his number and then we start to whatsapp that night. They say he got the *mom confirm approve* de face hahahaha. He looks silly but cute. Haha :X I was treating things normally until one morning he asked if I got think of him. Honestly I never expect him asking me such question but I’m happy =) He’s quite caring and sweet enough to ask me about my work in the morning. He took time to apps me even though hes in camp and busy reservists. I would say that’s some effort. =) He also told me he always here to listen to me, which actually makes me feel warm hearted. =)

Anyway, shall not put so much hope yet and goes with the flow. Get to know each other more first for now =) But my instinct tells me he’s interested in me and things are quite positive now. Told jie about things between us and she say this is the normal speed and we are progressing quite smooth and positive. We shall let the fate to decide =) Hope for the best ^_^

As you turn away~

This is quite a meaningful song for me...which the lyrics I would say is so ME! 

Sigh...

I would really agree on most of the lyrics...
especially this few part...

I don't wanna let you go...but you're already gone....
Now you kiss my cheek soft and bittersweet
I can read it in your eye baby this is our goodbye...

Nothing more to say nothing more to break ~
I keep reaching out for you...
hoping you might stay....

Nothing more to give nothing left to take~
I keep reaching out for you, reaching out for you...as you turn away...

Let go of my hand so I can feel again...
Nothing gonna hurt as much
as that final touch...
No we can't be friends 
Cause I don't think I could take seeing you 
And knowing where we've been...
I hope you understand...

我知道

我知道，无论我有多么的不舍，也没办法了...

你终究都把我们结束了...

跟你一起相处的时间, 虽然只有两天, 但是我还是要谢谢你, 让我觉得很开心, 跟你在一起, 回想起来, 在那两天，我的眼里真的只有你, 没有别人...虽然很短暂，但我没有后悔 =)

心里是多么的想要跟你有个未来, 曾经我傻傻的以为我们会有未来, 或许是我给不了你要的东西, 也或许是你还想她...尝试在我身上找到相同的感觉, 却找不到...在回去的巴士旅途中，当眼泪开始流下，很心痛，很不舍。。。记得我在陪你去搭巴士回家，上巴士前，紧紧的抱住你，仿佛知道是最后一次的拥抱，当时并没有想太多，只想抱住你然后不放手，你抚摸我的头发，然后我们就分离了。。。

哭了, 痛了, 无可奈何还是得放下了...无论多么不舍, 我知道我必须放了你, 明白到放过你, 我也放过我自己...如果有一天, 我不再关心你了, 那绝对不是因为我狠心, 而是你让我走了...

我必须停止联络你, 我知道你还是想保留朋友关系, 只是我需要时间来慢慢调整我的心情...毕竟付出的感情不是假的...我是真的很喜欢你...我妈常说, 是你的怎样都会回来的, 现在放手, 如果你们是有缘的, 会在一起的...顺其自然吧...勉强得回来的并不会开心... =/

就让时间去决定, 去帮我负荷我的痛...就如那首歌的歌词那样, *都会过去的* 新工作就要开始了....我知道一切都会很好的...

如果

我承认，我是一个任性的孩子
我想尽办法用我的全世界来换取一张通往你的世界的入场卷
原以为我成功了，到后来才发现，一切只是我的一厢情愿而已
我的世界，你已不在乎了
你的世界，我被赶了出来...

也许，我跟你是注定只能擦肩而过，刻意的挽留，也只能心力交瘁
我想我该学习放手，可能放手，幸福也许就就在不经意间，被留驻了

不要过分去强求不属于自己的东西，因为那样毫无意义，潇洒的放下该放下的...去活出自己的精彩....

我无法去决定 你心中的哪个位子
即使我拼命去努力，学会了付出 珍惜 拥有 却依然无法进入你心里
是不是要等到真的结束了
你才会感觉到我的努力

是不是我消失了你才知道我的对你的意义?

虽然我会痛心，我一旦爱上了一个人会全心付出
一旦我真正决定了死心，
我只会在心里哭一次，然后狠狠地把你忘记

真正的忘记一个人，并不需要任何东西，
时间会证明一切。。。

I won’t give up on us.

Sitting in my room blogging again under my dim light, pick a song that suits this ambience, everything just seems peaceful. =)

I know there is nothing I can do, or indirectly you felt the pressure from me, for that I’m really sorry but it’s because I like you too much.

Heard Jason M’raz’s new song. It’s call *I won’t give up*. The lyrics simply ring a bell to me when I heard it for the first time. I really won’t give up on us, I want to find out the possibilities between us, even I might ends up getting nothing, I wont regret.

I admit I was too intense but I really never expect too much from you, as long as we are still like before, our usual routine, I’m already happy =)

Don’t give up on me, or us. Just don’t. I don’t feel as happy when I’m with other people. It feels different when I’m with you. Feel so safe when you are holding my hands, as if scared I will got lost. I tell myself, this is worth fighting, for we are happy when we spend time together. =)

 

Fallen

The storm is coming but I don’t mind~ a very special song I love recently, caught this song from one of the proposal videos that he give me. That video is really touching :) It’s *Keep Breathing by Ingrid Michaelson*

I guess I’m in love with him. Don’t want to admit but I guess I am. Miss his hugs, miss holding his hands and just walk around. *blushed*

Despite everything, I will just wait till he’s ready for us. I am willing to wait for you. =)

I will never forget the two dates. It’s memorable and I was very happy. I’m glad I made you happy too =) You were concerned in the end you still can’t give me anything or any promises, but I wont regret no matter how. At least in the end we had a great time together and happy memories. =) 

A quote from ugly betty, matt told betty this. “Look, there’s no way to know what’s gonna happen, but I do know I want to find out.” and I really wanna know. I really hope I could hold your hands and show you to my best friend about you and they be happy for us. I want to see the possibilities between us. =)

Dearest Dii

Decided to dedicate this post to my dearest dii. Saw his sorry on his own blog’s chatter box, felt sad. Sad because we haven’t been talking for quite some time now. But I know he has his own reason of doing so, probably girlfriend issue and also studies. His studies in poly is really so hectic I would say so, that’s what I felt from him.

Still remember how I know him until we get very very close for around, 8 months time. I wanna thanks to Chester, if not because of him I wouldn’t have this cute didi. =) Having him as my dii is really one of the greatest thing happen in my life. Although he’s so much younger than me, but his thinking is quite matured, a sweet matured guy. =)

I will never forget how we spend those sad and happy times even just over viber. I’m glad I’m there for you mentally during your sad times. I really wished I could be there physically for you, not only your ex. ^^ To be a real jie jie that can support you and give you a warm hug. I really wished. =)

I wanna thanks you for accompany me for interview last month. You woke up so early for me and pei me the whole day until after lunch. I’m really grateful. =)

No matter what happens, you know I’m always here for you and support you. Jie always love you! =) Jiayous in studies and cheer up always <3

中秋节

It’s been 11 days since I got my chicken pox. It’s rather a suffer and itchy sickness. Worst part? Scars all over my back. :(

PS: 我要庆祝中秋节！跟我的家人一起庆祝！ =(

Chicken Pox

Chicken pox is certainly not fun and the itchyness is driving me crazy!

Itchyyyyy :(

Gathering and bowling session :)

Receive Ivan's call and ask my bro to drop me at Josephine. It was so sweet of my bro and I thank him when I reach. Was rather being abit rude without notice, according to Ivan. Must not repeat that again *only talk to him even when his friends is around*

It's been months since we last met around April. I'm glad we are still as close as always :) he suddenly say *friends are always better than being couples in a way whereby couples might not ends up still being friends but friends will still be there :) however in my opinion that also depending on situation :/

The gathering last from 430 till 635pm. Then I ask Ivan to drop me at olivenz behind Jusco. Asked him to sit for awhile while waiting see Meng and tuck Leong to reach, so until around 740 they arrived and finally I am able to introduce 2 person who meant a lot in my life, my 2 best friend of my life. :) Love both of them :)

After dinner we went to parade for our. bowling session. It was my first time experience same goes to see Mun and tuck leong. Ends up I lost the most :/ but it doesn't matter as long as we had fun together :) had a great day today ! :)

Hee :P

Promised myself on this picture on 9th Sept 2011, and I’ll be going there soon! Hehehe :X

A little bit of here and there.

Finally, 17 days to my Paris Trip. Yesterday was a very bad day for me, however it passed. Today is a brand new day, so much positive today!. YEAH!

Bad mood can really make me cry, though I can’t cry for long, no idea why either. Well, my bad mood is the combination of a few issues.

• Parking is full so I have to park further in which I walk further from parking to office.
• Someone been not replying me much at night. On this issue, I need to pull back before falling too deep, I need to focus more on myself. =/
• I skipped my lunch due to not knowing what to eat anymore, cause basically everything is bored after I work here for about 8 months now. *Do not evoke a person who is in deep hunger, it will be the last thing you do*
• Fear of job insecure, for this, I need to credits to my family who supports me especially my eldest sis, and my younger brother, not to mention, Angela jie, Snakey aka Jimmy, and cyrus didi. Adding a new one, Edison ! :)

Combinations of this few ingredients really makes my day bad. However, it’s passed.

Need to keep myself reminded that he’s just a closer friends, NOT BF, at least not yet :X

Went out with Suki for singing session on Thursday! Hehehe, she picks me up on office then we go parade to sing. Met Carson again, hahaha, hmmm he always switch between jusco and parade, and yet i still met him, really fated! Hahaha. We was given a big room and both of us silly girl was thinking, “Wahh, so big a room, let’s open our own concert! XD” and so we sing a lot of songs happily! YEAH!

Our *Concerts* ends on 8 and then we went to our next stop, Sushi King. Shared a bowl of Tempura Ramen, ate a few sushi and chat chat chat. After Sushi King, I decide to redeem my FOC Frappuccino Chocolate Cream Chip with the size of Grande (medium size). She still feel not full enough after sushi, so we ordered Shepherd Pie and share. Chris and Looqman are in the shop and we chat happily with them. Hahaha. Sad to know that Ben is based in the Starbucks back in Station 18 AEON. :( He’s such a joker and he gave me 30% off for his staff price back in Parade! XD

【 RELATiONSHiPS HAVE STAGES ♥ 】

【 STAGE 1 (1-3 Months): The Honeymoon Stage 】
Everything seems perfect, both are happy and feeling “in love.” You share moments, dates and just having fun with each other, sharing laughs and giggles. It’s like nothing could stop you. Your feelings are infinite, and for once you’re thinking, “This may work out….” and it seems like nothing could go wrong. You spend hours getting ready before going out with this person.
*If your relationship ended in this stage — Most likely, both rushed into the relationship too quickly. Being together was all too sudden and just for the moment. When one starts noticing the flaws, one gets a choice to move foward, or back away. Being friends has a high percentage of working out, but nothing to stress over. Both may just need the time to get to know one another better.

【 STAGE 2 (4-6 months): The Bumpy Road 】
Things are going okay now. The relationship is calm and settled; both are still mostly happy. Had a couple arguments and disagreements here and there, nothing huge. Start to notice some of each other’s flaws and aspects of their personalities not seen before, but still truly care for one another.
*If your relationship ended in this stage — You truly cared about this person. You had the energy to fight for this person, yet you feel as if something was lacking, something was missing. It doesn’t feel right, one isn’t happy. When one isn’t happy, one tends to walk away to seek their new happiness. Being friends is still a possibility.

【 STAGE 3 (7-12 months): The Rocky Mountain 】
You start to realize who your partner really is. A few more arguments may occur. Problems with jealously, overprotectiveness may arise. Other people may come in the picture. The “in love” moments start to decrease, but you feel as if you’ve “fallen in love.” You tend to have this energy inside to strive and “make it work,” and you feel more comfortable being around this person, feeling more of yourself.
*If your relationship ends in this stage — You feel as if you’re hurt, depending on the circumstances. You were so sure that that person was “The One.” You were so SURE that he/she was different. But like a cancer, a problem that may have happened, a small issue, grew into something larger that took over what was made between two people. You still miss this person from time to time. You still remember the memories. Being friends may be difficult right away, but over time, you slowly mature up, and learn the reality of it.

【 STAGE 4 (1 year or more): The Long Road 】
1, 2, 3, 4, 5 years, huh? This person truly means something to you. You are “in love” with this person. He/she made a difference in your life. No one else knows you more than this person. You guys have been through the good, the bad, and the ugly, and still strive to make it last.
*If your relationship ends in this stage — You feel heartbroken; it’s tough. You can’t sleep, can’t eat, you miss him/her, you try to move on, you try meeting new people, but seems like nothing works. For whatever reason the split occured, it must’ve been something important, or something must have been so wrong that it took over. Being “just friends” is impossible, because if you tried to be friends, you wouldn’t be able to think of them in any other way besides the one you once “loved” .. .. ♥